And oh, about this, it’s not cringe worthy. Really. If everyone is doing it around and you don’t feel it in you, it’s okay not to do it.

To me, it shows that you’re really in touch with who you are. Do it because you want to. Because you feel it.

It’s perfectly normal not to feel like dating anyone. It’s neither a rule nor a law. It’s supposed to be a mutually beneficial and growth inspiring relationship, not a course to complete and move to the next level of ‘life’.

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Cameroonian writer and video creator. Featured in LEVEL and P.S. I Love You. I write about building relationships and personal transformation.

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